Mine

One simple word "Mine". What does that single word mean to you?

Mine.A simple word really,yet one that has so much meaning to a girl like me.To have someone who wants you so completely that they utter that word,that they choose to willingly take that possession, its a feeling I struggle to explain with words.
I love hearing how I am his,hearing things like"Mine" ,"My babygirl","My princess" ETC. It fills me with pride,almost like a reassurance that I am doing something right. I love it. I crave it. I thrive and blossom when I hear it. In fact almost always upon hearing such things I am pretty much thrown into little space instantly. I feel as if  when I hear it, Im being claimed,not just my body but my soul. 

Make it obvious

I saw this pic a couple days ago,saved it and put it in here then left it so I could try to think on what I wanted to say.

I think this applies to all relationships,not just ones in which there are romantic overtones but friendships as well. You should never make the person or people you love and care about feel like an option. No one likes to feel forgotten,ignored or unimportant to the person they care deeply about. In this day and age,communication is instantaneous,eliminating any real excuse for allowing someone to feel anything less then cherished.

It takes hardly any effort to make it obvious to the person or people you care about that you want them in your life, that you value their spot in your world. A message,a note, a check in on them take nothing more then a few moments of your time,which while it is precious and limited for most,if the person or people are important to you then using a few of those precious moments means all that more to the person who means so much to you.

I know from experience how much that hurts. I also know how fortunate I am to have people in my life who do go out of their way to make it so obvious they want me in their lives. I try to do the same for them. I may not always succeed,god knows I fuck up ALOT , but I can honestly say I do my damnedest to make sure those I love know just how grateful I am for them being in my life. I dont want anyone I care about,that I love, to ever feel the things I have.

What is it you want from your S/O and what do you want to give to your S/O?

What is it you want from your S/O and what do you want to give to your S/O? 

Honesty,openness,an open mind,love,affection,attention,some semblance of control and reoccurance/follow through is really all I want. I know its asking for alot and I dont nessarily deserve all of it .However it is what I want. In many ways its what I need.

What do I want to give my S/o? The world. I would give him everything I can within my power to do so without hesitation.If they are dealing with me in all my clingy and needy ways then why wouldnt I offer everything in return?

Lifestyle Dynamic and Love

Did you first enter into a dynamic right away before falling in love? Did you do so with a contract? Did you do so after vetting? Did you do so with a period of consideration?

Or

Did you first fall in love based on a friendship you had developed with a potential then develop a contract and enter a into a contract?

Or 

Do you believe a D/S or M/S or even S/M should or should not be based on love?

When I first started to explore the lifestyle I was already in love with the Man who would become my Dom.I fell in love based on the friendship that sprung forth from meeting the first time and it sorta naturally progressed into a relationship which then continued to evolve into the dynamic. 

I honestly believe (and least for me) being in love enhances the lifestyle . However I am aware for some that wouldnt be the case and Im pretty sure depending on the dynamic of the said relationship it might even be frowned upon. I am a babygirl. Granted I am a bratty babygirl who isnt always the most obideient,but for me loving my Daddy is just a natural part of the dynamic ,of the lifestyle that I hold is such high regard.

Checking in with your Dom

 Does your Dominant want to know everything about your day? Do they check on you? Do they ask where you are and what your doing? Do you have to update them regularly throughout the day? Why do you think that is?

Another good question asked in the group I belong to that I decided to turn into a post on here.

As of now, noone is that interested in my day. Hell Im not even that interested in my day. I would love it though if there was more of an interest,more checking in,more curiosity in general. Especially now that we see each other even less. It would make some of the distance/lack of time together a little better to deal with I feel.In the past we have tried different programs/apps that we used on our phones/tablets just for checking in and what not. Im tempted to bring those back up and maybe try them again. Maybe its just time to sit down and talk about what we need and want ,where we need things to go.

If your current relationship ended, would you seek another D/s again?

If your current relationship ended, would you seek another D/s again?

I dont know. I wasnt seeking one when I stumbled into what Ive had. I cant say I wouldnt ever seek D/s again,its too integral of a part of me. I can say that it would be a long time before I ever went down that road again,willingly giving my submission to anyone. I would have to protect myself as a babygirl first and bluntly there arent many who are worthy of a babygirl,even if it is just a girl like me.

technology limits

Do you have limits and restrictions on technology? Can you watch as much TV as you want, use the Internet however you’d like or do you have rules to follow as to their use?





No I dont have any limits and restrictions at the moment. I work from the PC typically so its sorta difficult for there to be restrictions on it. As of now I can do as I wish in regards to electronics and the like.
I did at one point have limits. Things changed,roles shuffled around and reevaluations are slowly happening. 
At some point,however, I would love to see restrictions in place again. Im a babygirl in pretty much every sense of the word. Without rules,without guidelines, Im lost. I need the structure,I crave the sense of accomplishment I get from doing as I am told and the pleasure I am able to bring to my Daddy by doing so. Not to mention it keeps my brain sorta occupied ,something that is always needed.