talk about ~day 5

5:Talk about the best birthday you've had.

I cant really recall a "best birthday". I never really made a big deal out of my birthday,the year mom passed I pretty much stopped celebrating them at all. My sister tried to make a big deal out of it the last time I was in Indiana,made me leave the house and then we got Tboned. couple years ago I had the hysterectomy on my birthday and there were complications during the surgery,which resulted in a very painful recovery. Honestly? I think I would say my best birthdays are ones when I dont end up in pain.

talk about~day 4

4:Talk about the thing you regret most so far.

I think the closest thing I could honestly say is even in the realm of regret for me would be my first marriage. Even then its only due to who I married and what he did to me. I dont regret the children who stemmed from it or some of the experiences that helped to shape me into who I am today. 

talk about ~ day 3

3:Talk about the person you've had the most intense romantic feelings for.

It was amazing. Despite my ability to be rather verbose, I dont think I could ever accurately describe the feelings accurately. It was intense ,awesome, magical....It was love in its purest most raw form. Kismet if you will.

talk about ~Day 2

2:Talk about your first kiss.

My first kiss from a girl happened when I was about 11. I ended up befriending one of the "outcast" kind of girls who was geeky and unpopular cuz of it. We soon became inseparable. One night while having a sleep over (a theme that ended up being a habit for me) we were curled up in bed and she kissed me. It was my first ever kiss but was far from the last. She ended up being my first girlfriend and we were together for almost 2 years before I moved back home almost an hour away

My first kiss from a guy was when I was 14 (technically). He came over to hang out with a bunch of friends of mine from the neighborhood and me. We had known each other for a few years at that point (he was one of the first people I became friends with when I moved back home). He laid across the couch,I was sitting on the floor. He brushed the hair away from my neck and made me jump ( yes my neck was a weakness even then) and when I looked back to tell him to stop that.....he kissed me. He went from best friend to boyfriend in a kiss.....and it only took him from 7th grade art club to sophomore year to get me to say yes and consider dating a guy.

Talk about ~Day 1

Talk about the first time you watched your favorite movie.

My favorite movie.....Ive got alot of favorite movies. Most of them are disney I think lol. I love The Lion King. I have alot of really good memories connected to it. 

Anywhere from the first time I watched it (sitting in my living room with my nephew on my lap watching it on VHS while babysitting his rotten ass ) to the friends I made in 7th grade Art club when I came back home that ended up being more then friends (and I ended up with a kid out of the whole situation) to the most recent theatrical release that made John decide he would never take me to see it again (I may have sung every song and possibly even know the whole movie by heart)

I think possibly it might just be my favorite movie. 

30 days of kink~Day 30 (FINAL ONE)

Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.


I run a group and page on FB for the DD/lg lifestyle. I could write tons,share post after post really but instead I thought it better to just share a few links to several posts of my fave blogs on tumblr that might be useful for some of those who read the stuff i write..

45 things a girl wants but wont ask for
50 rules for Daddies
50 things a Caregiver could do for their little!
101 ideas to make Your slave feel Owned (i.e. loved)
Dominants Need Training Also
Things To Help Long Distance Relationships
Long distance relationships. Ways a Dom can be more involved in his submissives daily life.

Ya know what? Even better....Heres the link to the library on that page :)

Library: Long Distance & Online Relationships
Library For Kinksters

30 days of kink ~day 29

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (eg mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, Sir)? What is your opinion of these titles in general?

Im a babygirl submissive who has a bit of a brat and Alpha side. I have been a Domme and have been called Mistress. I personally love titles. It helps to put me in the right mind set and I like having that special name I can call the one I belong to.