30 days of kink~ Day 12

Day 12~ Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you have had.


I havent really had any off hand that I can think of. I am a huge clutz though and tend to accidentally hurt myself all the time. This has carried over into times when Ive been having sex unfortunately. Ive smacked my own head off a wall while changing positions,broke a toe hitting it off a headboard,given myself bruises from different acts ,hell Im pretty sure ive given my self a concussion a few times even.

30 days of kink ~Day 11

Day 11~ What are your views on the ethics of kink?

I feel as long as everyone involved is of age and consenting to whatever kink it is ,then its all good. At least thats the ethics I apply to my kink/lifestyle. Not everyone is going to be the same way or have the same thoughts, but this is about me right? ;)

30 days of kink ~ day 10

Day 10~ What are your hard limits

Full hoods
Mummification
sleep sack
figging
dilation
anal fisting

speculms 

fire cupping

fire play

cutting

scarification

injections

humiliation (public)

being spit on

washing mouth out with soap

shaving hair (head)

abandonment (fantasy)

speech restrictions (meaning who,when,where)

bathroom restrictions(meaning when)

given away to another Dom

bestiality

infatilism (being a baby,ETC)

enemas

Scat

serving as a toliet

blood

anyone under 18 (actually I prefer over 25 now)

Im sure there are a few things Ive missed/forgotten but these are the main ones.....There is alot I enjoy....and some that are more soft limits then hard ......and of course some stuff I  have yet to try ;)

30 days of kink ~Day 9

Day 9~ post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.


Bilingual


Discipline

30 days of kink ~ Day 8

day 8~ post a pic of something you find Erotic

30 days of kink~ Day 7

Day 7~ What's your favorite toy?

My favorite toy would probably be my glass one atm.....though it has changed from the past. I had a double that was my absolute fave and ive had paddles and canes that I adored.
My glass is beautiful. It has blue swirly designs on it that are slightly raised so there is texture to it and both ends cant be used.

30 days of kink~day 6

Day 6~ Describe your weirdest / most interesting sexual fantasy.

Im into a lot of various things sexually which I guess for some would be considered weird or interesting.

I suppose the most interesting fantasy (or at least the one thats not as common) would be the desire to be leashed while wearing my tail for a full scene using a paddle or cane with restraints that resulted in all those beautiful and delicious marks that are felt and seen the next day.

30 days of kink ~ day 5

What was your first kinky sexual experience?

My first real kinky sexual experience would be several years ago, when I had a cane used on me for the first time. It was the first time Ive ever fallen into subspace and it was amazing. It was one of the most therapeutic,enriching,emotional,yet satisfying experiences I have ever had. The bruises lasted a week or two but they were so worth it and so beautiful.

30 Days of kink ~ day 4

Day 4 ~ Any early experiences that you think ,in retrospect,may hint at your kinks?

I guess looking back maybe there was some signs of my being kinky. The exhibitionism and risk of being caught via public places or the home movie....the group sex (for lack of better wording) under the guise of weekend sleepovers or that one week in the hospital....
Even once I came of age, I suppose I was still showing signs of being kinky without even knowing enough to acknowledge it. I used to get home from work ,log into certain chat rooms and do cam shows for fun. a few years later i turned that into something a bit more lucrative, but at the time it was just something to do....a way to explore new things in a less risky way.

I didnt even discover the names for most of the things that I am into,until I was well into adulthood. I didnt know the name for polyamory until I was in my 20's but had been practicing it for many years prior for example. Im still learning and exploring new kinks as often as I can.

The only way to continue to grow is to continue to learn , right?

30 Days of kink ~ Day 3

Day 3 : How did you discover you were kinky?

Ive always been different,off,weird..... I never did fit into a idealized mold of who or what I should be. I didnt actually discover the kink side untiil I was a bit older,most of my relationships were pretty vanilla not counting the poly aspect of things. Although I guess the kink side of things was always there really.Threesomes werent exactly uncommon for me (there was the occasional 4some and the one time with 5 girls and I) ,sex in random places when the mood hit (some of which were really inappropriate) wasnt unheard of ....things that looking back really could define the beginnings of my road into kink. 

I didnt fully discover D/s though until I was in my 20's. As soon as I found it though, it was like a light exploded and lit up my brain. I researched and learned as much as I possibly could about various aspects of the lifestyle, delving further into the ones that interested me the most by actually trying and experiencing them. Which led me to where I am today.....a sub (sometimes ) who still doesnt quite fit into any idealized mold.

30 Days of kink ~Day 2

Day 2 ~ list your kinks


Obviously not in any order of preference and Ill probably end up forgetting some of them.....

biting
kissing,
spanking
flogging
crops
canes
kitty play
fingering
oral
dirty talk
masturbation
licking
domestic service
scratching
control
toys
DD/lg
pet names
roughness
anal
breast/nipple play
cock worpship
piercings
breath control
choking
marking/being marked
blindfolds
face slapping
leash and collar


Not a complete list by any means,but its a good start ;)

30 Days of Kink ~ Day 1

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What Parts of BDSM Interest You? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self.

I self identify as a submissive. A babygirl submissive to be exact. Though I have been a Domme for a select few,I've always found myself more comfortable,more at home on the sub side.Admittedly I am affectionately referred to as a selective submissive,meaning I only submit when I choose to or when its truly pulled out of me.

Over the course of the many years Ive been in the lifestyle at this point, I have alot of varied interests within it. Other then the obvious Domination (or being dominated in my case) there are so many smaller offshoots and aspects of BDSM that its atrocious to try and list. Thats why I personally keep a checklist for myself of things I like,am interested in trying and are hell NO's. I try to keep it updated though I am in serious need of updating it now.
Maybe Ill work on that this weekend at some point *shrugs* 

The short answer to defining my kinky self is I am me. I dont fit well into roles and tend to mold them to fit me. Im a bit of a kitty,SAM,domestic submissive,with a bit of Alpha tossed in just to keep things fun. lol


* I did update my checklist, I just cant seem to get it to add to the blog *