Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?
Trust, communication and honesty are all parts of a BDSM realtionship that I believe are important in keeping it healthy. I dont nessarily believe its any different really from a vanilla realtionship,as I feel those are important aspacts in that type as well, but its a bit more imperative to openly discuss what works and what doesnt when it comes to BDSM. You have to trust the person youve given control to not hurt you or cause permanant damage and the only way that can be established is by open communication and complete honesty. Without full trust in a Dom/Daddy/Master/Sir/Top (whichever title fits your situation) letting go enough to find that release/subspace wont happen. Talking about what you like,what you dont and what you want to try are all important so that you are on the same page with limits.
I think the only difference between a BDSM relationship and a vanilla one would be the toys involved ;)
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